He sexually assaulted me at a party.  It took months for me to accept what had happened.  When I finally told them what had happened in their apartment, they seemed supportive.  They planned things with just me so I wouldn’t have to see him.  Slowly, that changed.  Now, he is their roommate.  They let me know he will be there, but I can’t see them without seeing him.  

I need feminism because the guy code is NOT more important than a moral code.